All The Single Ladies

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Despite what you may think, the single life is not horrible.

I see so often, ladies dying to be in a relationship. Ladies with so much to offer, losing themselves by running from man to man or either staying in a toxic relationship. My theory is, and always has been you have to learn to love yourself before you can learn to love someone else.

There are several types of women who are  simply afraid to be alone. You have some women who are always in a relationship, with a different/new guy every 3, 6, or 9 months. Those are the ladies who love the newness of a relationship, the honey moon stage. After the lust dies down, true feelings on both parts come out and soon after, the relationship is over. Instead of waiting, to get into something else…here she goes on to the next man, repeating the cycle all over again.

Then you have the women who will stay in a horrible relationship, just to say they have a man. They want to prove their relationship is going well, so badly that they are willing to put on a big front to prove a lie to the world, all while sacrificing their own happiness.

During my  singledom stint I have realized exactly what I want. I know who I am, I know what makes me happy, what makes me angry, what makes me laugh. I know the things I want from a man. I don’t have a crazy superficial list, based on looks, status or anything like that. I have taken the time to get to know and love me for who I truly am, that’s how I am able to truly say what I want from a man. I feel like an expert on the single life, lol. I will not settle! I will not get in a relationship with any guy, just to say I have a man. I want something with substance.

So In Love With Myself, I Just Might Marry Myself.